Kid and dating after divorce

Talking openly with your children and making them feel like they are part of the decision is such a nice idea.I’m not saying let your kids rule your personal life, but let them feel like their feelings on the situation matter.

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Or is he or she going to start sleeping over every night and become part of your family? ’ ‘Are they going to feel sad that the man in our home isn’t their dad?

Or, perhaps, will your relationship be somewhere in between? ’ Meanwhile, they had been begging me to have him sleepover. I actually ended up sleeping in my son’s bed with him, and let my boyfriend take my bed! I realize that is the ultimate extreme of being overprotective, but I have seen the other extreme countless times—the mom (or dad) who lets a boyfriend/girlfriend of 2 weeks practically move in, and the selfishness and stupidity of it really makes me cringe.

The first night my boyfriend ever spent the night at my house while my kids were there was about two years into the relationship. There are many factors to take into account when it comes to dating after divorce with kids and sleepovers: In my opinion, the time after your divorce is a time in your life to be very unselfish in certain aspects and really focus on your kids.

And that means being very thoughtful in deciding if sleepovers are right.

Lastly, PLEASE close and lock your door if you plan on being intimate, and keep things quiet.

Last modified 15-Feb-2015 19:12