But guys I meet through online dating sites, though available, are just not as attractive to me when we meet.
There’s just so much you infer and observe by knowing someone in person that doesn’t come across in a profile.
You’re clearly a magnetic person, but I sense an eagerness to fill a void with a new romantic prospect.
I don’t know how you’re vetting these online dates. Is your profile tailored to attract the kind of man your looking for?
Between the two guys at work pulling you aside for illicit conversations, trying to wade through the muck of online dating, and being disillusioned enough with the process to even write me for advice, it seems like you’re investing a lot of time and energy into nailing your “America’s Next Boyfriend” project. Be honest; are you truly in a place to commit to anyone right now? Like, if you received a text message from your ex would your body have an involuntary negative physical reaction?
Because if it would, then girl, you aren’t over your breakup yet.
And online dating is a fiery hell hole that involves email messages filled with horrible grammar and blurry profile pictures taken from terrible angles.