After that, the hope has been to use my personality to charm them and get some chemistry going.
(As new readers come across this post please keep in mind that I wrote it almost three years ago and my overall outlook on the topic as well as a number of related circumstances in my life have changed, as you can read after the post and in the comments below.
Regards.) I’ve teased the topic of dating with a disability a bit in some of my past posts, and it’s a topic that’s already been covered elsewhere on this blog, but I thought that I would finally step up to the plate and provide a guy’s perspective on what it’s like dating with a disability.
There were also plenty of times where I was out at the bars and I witnessed girls contorting their bodies as I passed by so that they wouldn’t touch me, as if it meant contracting cripple cooties or something.
Another frequent factor that’s made it hard to meet girls at restaurants, bars, or house parties is that due to the crowds I am essentially left stationary since moving around is difficult, which usually means relying on girls to approach me instead and unfortunately that hasn’t happened often.