If you want to show a man that you’re girlfriend material, don’t hook up with him on the first date.If you make a man your whole life, he’s going to lose interest because he will most likely feel smothered!Remember, he fell in love with the dynamic “you” who has her own interests and passions who wanted to make him a part of your life, not the whole darn thing.
So even though it’s great to let a new guy know where you are in your life or about your dating goals, take the time to get to know him before you decide.
(We recommend that you hold that conversation until at least date three or four).
As a result, he’ll feel a whole lot better about the possibility of having a relationship if you give him a little time. Not only is this phase of dating exciting, but it also allows you time to “data date” and collect the information you need to determine if he’s boyfriend material AND someone you want to be in a relationship with.
While our male counterparts can confuse the heck out of us Dignity Daters, sometimes they can be the best when it comes to dishing out dating advice.
Now that you have access to the Dating with Dignity’s Men’s Advice Column (Starting with these seven dating tips for women from men! Don’t let a man become the center of your universe.