There is no such thing as a perfect person – so getting realistic about what you are looking for (and what is out there!
What if an amazing guy lived just outside of your 30 mile perimeter?
Seriously, take a good look at your settings and consider being more flexible. Consider changing them from a 7 – the extreme – to a more moderate one.
Look up records from the comfort of your home with your desktop computer, laptop or tablet.
If the settings on e Harmony confuse you at all – contact customer care and they will happily help out.
Does a guy really need to be 4 inches taller than you? Are there other areas you could compromise on a bit?
Too many women sit back and wait for a guy to initiate communication.
If you see someone who looks interesting, send them a hello!